Well, my mom is single and we've both been single at the same time over the last ten years, so I really related to the bond between my character and Diane's.
Beauty is only skin deep. If you go after someone just because she's beautiful but don't have anything to talk about, it's going to get boring fast. You want to look beyond the surface and see if you can have fun or if you have anything in common with this person.
There's a very small group of elite actresses who are my age, who people want to work with. It's not easy to get a good job with good actors.