I had one fight in my adult life. I had the famous '89 fight with Nicole, which she admits that she initiated the physical part.
I could not tell you the date of my mother's death. I could not tell you the date of my dad's death. These are not dates that I find significant.
Nicole will come up in conversations where it's in a part of the conversation. Or we may be somewhere and I would tell some story about their mother and I. You know, we always honor her birthday.