I am a person whose father had no religion but who went to the nuns for a couple of years. And I think I'm the same: On one hand, I pray on the other hand, I don't believe. I am constantly between the two.
I don't think it's necessarily healthy to go into relationships as a needy person. Better to go in with a full deck.
I'm not really big on slapstick humor. I like gentle humor.